Pathological Lying: Symptom or Disease?
Pathological Lying: Symptom or Disease?
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Pathological lying (PL) is a controversial topic. There is, as yet, no consensus in the psychiatric community on its definition, although there is general agreement on its core elements. PL is characterized by a long history (maybe lifelong) of frequent and repeated lying for which no apparent psychological motive or external benefit can be discerned. While ordinary lies are goal-directed and are told to obtain external benefit or to avoid punishment, pathological lies often appear purposeless. In some cases, they might be self-incriminating or damaging, which makes the behavior even more incomprehensible. Despite its relative obscurity, PL has been recognized and written about in the psychiatric literature for more than a century. The German physician, Anton Delbruck,1 is credited with being the first to describe the concept of PL. He observed that some of his patients told lies that were so abnormal and out of proportion that they deserved a special category. He sub-sequently described the lies as "pseu- dologia phantastica."
Case Vignette
Mr A was desperate. He was about to lose yet another job, not because he was at risk for being fired, but because his lying behavior had finally boxed him into a corner. He had lied repeatedly to his colleagues, telling them that he had an incurable disease and was receiving palliative treatment. Initially, his coworkers treated him with sensitivity and concern, but as the weeks wore on, the scrutiny of his colleagues became increasingly pointed. He had to tell more and more outrageous lies to cover his tracks and justify having a terminal illness. Finally, when the heat became too unbearable, he suddenly stopped going to work. On the face of it, it would seem Mr A told these lies to gain the sympathy of his colleagues, but the consequences of his lying, in terms of emotional distress and potential loss of job, far outweighed any perceived gain. Mr A had lost several other jobs in the past because of his lying, and he was becoming frustrated. Family members reported that he often told blatant lies, and even when confronted, and proved wrong, he still swore they were true. Mr A finally sought psychiatric help after concluding that he could not stop himself from lying.
This scenario, or similar stories, is not uncommon in clinical practice. Letters I have received from mental health professionals, attorneys, and individuals around the world describe similar characteristics in people they know—excessive lying, easily verifiable to be untrue, mostly unhelpful to the liar in any apparent way, and even possibly harmful to the liar, yet told repeatedly over time. Even prominent and successful individuals are not immune to this behavior—for example, the well-known California case of Judge Patrick Couwenberg, who was removed from office not only for lying in his official capacity but also for lying under oath to a commission investigating his behavior.2 A psychiatric expert witness diagnosed pseudologia phantastica and suggested that the judge needed treatment. Why such a successful individual would repeatedly tell lies that could damage his credibility and put him in trouble with the law or other administrative bodies is baffling. Was his lying behavior completely within his control, or was there something different about his pattern of lies?
Lying is a common human trait defined by Merriam-Webster's Collegiate Dictionary as making "an untrue statement with intent to deceive." Selling3 agreed, with an observation that "everyone lies and you can't stop them," and concluded, "of course, that is the truth." PL is commonly referred to as pseudologia phantastica (or pseudologia fantastica) and, less commonly, as mythomania, or morbid lying. It is not yet clear whether these different names refer to the same phenomenon, but they are often used interchangeably. Throughout this article, PL and pseudologia phantastica will be used synonymously.
Over the years, very little has been written on the epidemiology of PL. Although its prevalence in the general population is unknown, one study of 1000 repeat juvenile offenders found a prevalence of close to 1%.1 A review of 72 cases reported that the average age at onset of the lying behavior was 16 and the average age at discovery was 22.4 The same review showed the sex ratio to be equal; the intelligence quotient (IQ) to be average or slightly below average, with significantly better verbal IQ than performance IQ; and a history of CNS abnormality in 40% of the cases, characterized by epilepsy, abnormal electroencephalographic findings, head trauma, or CNS infection.
PL is noted for the chronicity and frequency of the lies, and the apparent lack of benefit derived from them. The lies are easily disprovable tales that are often fantastic in nature and may be extensive, elaborate, and complicated. There often appears to be a blurring of the boundaries between fiction and reality. The magnitude, callousness, or consequences of the lying behavior are irrelevant. Even when there appears to be an external motive for the lies in PL, the lies are so out of proportion to the perceived benefit that most people would see them as senseless. Such characteristics of PL have led some researchers to conclude that the lying behavior appears to be a gratification in itself,5 the reward is internal (usually unconscious) to the liar, unlike ordinary lies, for which the expected reward is external.
Controversy surrounding PL
The debate over the ability of pathological liars to recognize their lies as false has dogged this phenomenon for decades. Integral to the debate is the confusion emanating from questions about a pathological liar's ability to think logically. It has been observed that pathological liars believe their lies to the extent that the belief may be delusional. As a result, PL has been referred to as a "wish psychosis."1 Furthermore, PL has also been described as impulsive and unplanned.1 These observations have raised doubts about the pathological liar's ability to fully control his or her lying behavior. The relative purposelessness of the lies, including the intangible benefits of false accusations or self-incrimination, and the repetitive nature of the lies, despite negative consequences to the liar's reputation and livelihood, further encourage doubts about the liar's ability to control his behavior. On the other hand, it has been observed that vigorously and persistently challenging pathological liars may lead pathological liars to partially acknowledge their lies, an observation that suggests the presence of logical thinking.6 Such a presentation is consistent with a view of PL as a fantasy lie, a daydream communicated as reality, told solely for the liar's pleasure.5 Although the fantasy lies may help the pathological liar escape from stress-ful life situations, or compensate for developmental traumas, there is evidence that individuals with PL show normal "guilty responses" when lying during a lie-detection test.7 It is perhaps an attempt at guilt reduction that motivates pathological liars to believe their lies, thereby creating a strange form of double bind.
The further observation that pathological liars usually have sound judgment in other matters and the observed association of PL with other criminal behavior in approximately half of the cases supports the notion of intact reality testing. The crimes associated with PL include theft, swindling, forgery, and plagiarism.4 It is worth noting, however, that some pathological liars are successful professionals without any public record of crime.
It's equally difficult to have an emotionally close relationship with someone who tells lies, even "harmless"ones....because all lies (especially habitual lying) contributes to relationship distance, mistrust, and failure to achieve a bond of closeness and safety. "Crazy-making" is the gut feeling that occurs after living with someone who lies, even lying about little things that wouldn't create a problem for the person lying. Gail Olson, PhD
Ditto the last two entries. Only one who has lived closely with a PL can truly understand the frustration, fear, cyclic destruction of trust, and hopelessness that ensues. A PL can even appear as a psychopath when lying in court with a seeming disregard for consequences to their loved one. They are truly at risk for abuse and other complications, as well as thier families. Chance Allen LMSW
Wow, this article has shed ALOT of light. My ex lied to the point that I wondered if he could help. (unneccesary lies, crazy lies, etc.) It was too much of a strain on our marriage, along with other issues, and after 10 years, it ended. I am wondering if it's hereditary because I'm seeing the same symptoms in our son, even though he hasn't been around him in 7 years and was 4 the last time he saw him?
Lying as a pathology has been discussed, pointed out dissected not just since the 19th century but in the writings of The Philokalia, St. Ephrem's homilies and countless other Eastern Orthodox Christian directions. The Ascetical writings of St Issac speaks more to the nature of man's behaviour than anything which came from the descending line of Freud and his teachings. Indeed the entire western notion of passion versus virtue no longer exists, and therin lies the secret of many of man's destructive behaviours.
Gerasimos Kambites M.Div., M.D FRCPC
Dr. Olson summed it up "...all lies (especially habitual lying) contributes to relationship distance...". The habitual liar understands the risk of damaging relationships or being unable to forge them. They gain satisfaction from knowing that is the possible outcome. The behavior actually puts the onus of forging relationships on the person being lied to, thereby shifting responsibility for developing relationships away from the liar. Clearly there is some component of a past experience gone sour related to telling the truth in these individuals. That is the lesson they learned early in life, that being honest is an invitation to censure. The lies are part of their offense armor, not defense. The question is, at what age in psycho-social development does being censured for telling the truth so affect individuals that lying (or confabulating), become their self-determined best option?
It is difficult to determine the root of PL, but the article repeatedly discusses impulsivity. Much literature regarding adhd discusses lying as a symptom. Could be in part to low self esteem, frequent negative feedback cycle, or lack of simply self regulation and difficulty with self perception. In other words, problems with executive function. It is important to recognize early because once it becomes habitual, it is very difficult to change.
In my experience, PL must be understood along with other disorders - OCPD, OCD or Narcissistic. It may help to understand whether PL is involuntary or otherwise. Dominic
Everything I say are lies. If I state this, am I a liar?
Different religions and sects have their own version. Do they all lie?
I think alot of PLs get away with it---completely. Sometimes it can be embarrassing at their funeral, for their wife. How about the film BIG FISH?
Rachelle
This article describes my ex-husband EXACTLY! He'd lie about what he had for lunch! Immediately following our separation, he seemed to be functioning well; his way of interacting with others was working. Now, 3 1/2 years later (& divorced), he's crumbling. Once a successful surgeon partner, he was recently asked to leave the group. Friends have deserted him, his personal hygiene is sorely lacking, he often has watery red eyes, he forgets soooo many things; he has lost the respect of the children .... This article makes sense with that: He had head trauma from a bike accident in 2004; unconscious 30") if the increased stress is causing him to O/C lie with increasing frequency, it makes sense for the lie bulk to be reaching critical mass and his downfall accelerating. It makes sense because he is OCD about the OR and about our house. (Now he has let the house go.)
Despite all the pain he has caused me, our children and others, I do still care about this man as the father of my children... PLEASE notify me when some kind of treatment becomes available.
I have attempted treatment of many type of pathological liars in interpersonal psychotherapy. Most success comes from successful identification and treatment of "underlying"axis I disorder (AD/HD for example). Most striking is the pattern of "lying about the obvious" that children and adolescents demonstrate who have a degree of brain injury or ADHD. Other children will deny/lie about the obvious who are pre psychopathic guiltless narcissists. They are very powerful manipulators and it has taken me years to finally stop projecting benign motives on this subgroup. Professionals tend to be naive and assume that the lying is "psychologically determined" and that the liar is a victim of a disorder. Sometimes true but sometimes NOT. Have and encounter with a liar/false accuser and you will see things differently. The book by Ford called "Lies, Lies, Lies" is another psychiatric treatise.

"The shame of socially or formally interacting with others in the company of a spouse who lies repeatedly could overwhelm the relationship." This does not even begin to express the heartbreak of living with a PL. Lies about job and financial issues can destroy the family's assets and lead to homelessness. And in the context of the relationship, perhaps the most heartbreaking is to be accused of saying or doing something you know you didn't do, and to see in the PL's eyes that he really believes it and will not hear your denial. The first few times you doubt yourself, because he is so convincing. Perhaps you have forgotten doing the thing that made him so angry at you. After a few years you know he is lying, although he may believe it himself, but it leaves you with no possible defense. And intellectually you may realize that he isn't doing it on purpose, but viscerally it hurts every time.