Patient Suicide: Impact on Clinicians

December 31, 2014

As an occupational hazard, preparing for the possibility of patient suicide will help the clinician anticipate the types of support that our colleagues or we may need to weather the event.

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Yet, even with reports of increasing suicide rates, suicide remains a statistically rare occurrence. The most recent CDC data show that 39,518 people in the US killed themselves in 2011.3

It is a fact that many psychiatrists will lose a patient to suicide.4 Bereavement from suicide is quite similar to bereavement experiences with other traumatic losses, although with suicide a proportion of friends and/or family members will experience stigma, shame, and self-blame.5 Between 30% and 40% of therapists who have lost a patient to suicide report severe distress-including anxiety, stress reactions, and depressive experiences.6,7

Sequelae of suicide

In the late 1990s, I became interested in studying the effect of patient suicide on psychotherapists and discovered firsthand how daunting a task this is. Instead of asking psychotherapists to fill out anonymous questionnaires, my methodology was to interview therapists whose patient had committed suicide. Participants were asked to talk in detail about what effect, if any, the patient’s suicide had. After receiving Institutional Review Board approval, I began recruiting participants. Several colleagues declined to participate in this research: some told me they worried about legal repercussions of talking about the suicide; others declined to talk about the pain or perhaps shame that such a discussion might evoke. Others were simply too busy. Over several years, I was able to talk with 12 clinicians and to identify some general themes common to the experience of having a patient commit suicide.8

The audiotaped transcripts of the interviews were analyzed and 8 common themes emerged:

• Traumatic responses: dissociation, traumatic intrusion, avoidance, somatic symptoms participants associated with the suicide, and dreams (nightmares) about the patient

• Affective responses: crying, sadness, anger, grief, and fear or anxiety about the consequences

• Treatment-specific relationships: clinicians reviewed and reconstructed some of their work with the patient, particularly their last session, and spoke about contact with the patient’s family

• Relationships with colleagues: this proved to be one of the most complicated experiences and included contacts with the clinician’s personal analyst or psychotherapist, supervisors, peers, trainees, and other institutional staff

• Risk management concerns: many had to do with potential for being sued

• Grandiosity, shame, humiliation, guilt, judgment, and blame were spoken about (using this language) by the clinicians seeking to understand their own ongoing internal response and their projected fear about how others would respond to them as “the person whose patient killed himself or herself”

• A sense of crisis was part of the experience of most clinicians interviewed; trainees were uncertain about their work and choice of a specialty; others felt unsure that they wanted to continue work, feeling that psychotherapy exposed them and their patients to an unsettling vulnerability

• The effect on work with other patients: clinicians spoke about how they were changed for better and, at times, for worse in their work with other patients; some spoke of no longer accepting suicidal patients for treatment, or quickly moving into management and action rather than seeking to deepen the relationship and understand the suicidal patient; a few felt calmer in the face of suicidal crises with patients

For more than 10 years, Eric Plakun, MD, Edward Shapiro, MD, and I have presented a workshop at the American Psychiatric Association on the range of reactions clinicians facing a patient suicide may have and the institutional and professional dynamics that occur following such a suicide. Out of these workshops and after listening to many colleagues speak about their experiences, we developed recommendations for clinicians, trainees, administrators, and peers about how to respond in the event of a suicide.9

Patient suicide is now recognized as an occupational hazard for psychiatrists. Training focuses on prevention and intervention with suicidal patients. What is less prevalent is training in “post-vention”-what the clinician should anticipate when a patient does commit suicide. In addition to the personal reactions, clinicians must be prepared to speak with the family of the patient, to manage institutional inquiry procedures, and to engage in various risk management–driven procedures. Often, self-care comes last and may be neglected, which can lead to chronic problems related to stress, anxiety, anger, and depletion. For some clinicians, there is a process of grieving that takes more time than they, or their colleagues, anticipate.

Legal advice often involves not talking about the suicide. Laws about how to invoke peer review protection vary from state to state; thus, understanding how to convene a peer-protected space to speak about the event is important. In addition to a sentinel event review aimed at studying treatment and outcomes, clinicians need a protected space to speak about their feelings and the effect on morale after a patient suicide.

Managing the group process requires a sensitive and skilled leader. Intense affects, anger, blame, and other potentially destructive projective processes must be recognized and interpreted for the group to work productively to understand the complex feelings experienced by various members. Because of the tendency for guilt and shame associated with stigma, scapegoating and blame may be prevalent; a way to acknowledge and work with these feelings is necessary.

Role-related groups may also be important, particularly when the clinician is a trainee and the dynamics of supervisors or others in charge of evaluating the trainee may inhibit more full participation in a group process. In our workshop, we have heard numerous stories of trainees who felt blamed, demoralized, or somehow isolated and alone following the suicide of a patient. Systems anxiety and its transmission across hierarchical structures is important to recognize. Supervisors frequently are not trained in how to support a trainee whose patient has committed suicide. Therefore, thinking together as a group may lead to a more coherent and supportive atmosphere.

It is recommended that the clinician meets with the patient’s family to offer genuine condolences and to provide support. Clinicians must think carefully in advance about how to approach the family. Legal consultation may help the clinician think clearly about how to manage requests for medical records or oth-er confidential information. Offering a judgment-free, empathic, non-defensive space to listen to the family is important. This is not the time for the clinician to turn to the family for support, to divulge personal information that might burden the family, or to slip into blaming or overly explaining speculative hypotheses about the patient’s motivations. The primary purpose of meeting with the family is to support the family.


Dr M is a young psychiatrist who recently completed his training. He has completed several fellowships in child psychiatry and has psychoanalytic training. His specialty is working with young adults and adolescents, many of whom struggle to separate from home and enter the role of adult functioning. Dr M feels very empathic with his patients and is aware of the emotional crises they frequently have. When he was a resident, a fellow trainee had a patient commit suicide. Although he felt sorry for his colleague, he confides that he felt superior to his colleague and took some comfort in that idea.

Over the past 18 months, Dr M has particularly enjoyed working with David. Feeling depressed and suicidal, David took a leave of absence from college after his second semester. Over the course of their work together, David had his ups and downs but soon began to understand his conflicts around separation, his vulnerability to depressive reactions, and his sensitivity to interpersonal rejection. David was at the point where he felt ready to return to college, and Dr M agreed.

The week before he was to return to college, David talked about how he was looking forward to going back to school. He seemed appropriately anxious but also excited. Three days later, Dr M learned that David had hanged himself in the basement of the family home. Dr M was shocked-he racked his brain for any indication in the sessions over the past weeks for an indication that David was depressed or suicidal. Nothing stood out. David reported that he was taking his antidepressant medication and felt it was effective.

Restless and unable to sleep, Dr M kept reviewing every detail of his work with David-he wondered what it was that he had missed. He couldn’t make sense of what had happened, and over the next few days, he felt angry and directed his anger toward a colleague. He had been aware of a gentle competition with this colleague over the years, and now that colleague came to represent judgment, blame, and arrogance. Any thought of the colleague left Dr M feeling angry and bitter.

Contrary to his understanding of what a dedicated physician does, Dr M decided to forego attending the funeral. He called his insurance provider and was advised not to have any contact with the family. However, after consulting with a trusted advisor, Dr M called the family and offered to meet with them. Although this felt like the right thing to do, he was anxious about not following the legal advice he had received. The meeting with David’s family was very painful, the family was uncommunicative, and Dr M left with the feeling that they blamed him for their son’s death. Unspoken guilt seemed to pervade the atmosphere of that meeting.

Over the following weeks, Dr M withdrew from colleagues; had trouble sleeping, with occasional nightmares; and felt ashamed about his past “grandiosity” in thinking he was a good and dedicated physician. This attitude had convinced him that none of his patients would ever commit suicide. He felt chastened by the event, which had challenged his previous professional identity and assumption that competent physicians never lose a patient to suicide.

Unlike the grief he felt following his mother’s death, Dr M’s grief for David was tinged with bitter resentment, shock, and a type of narcissistic injury that surprised him. Several months after David’s suicide, Dr M sought consultation with a psychoanalyst who had previously been helpful.

In the years following David’s suicide, Dr M’s feelings about himself and his work had changed. He felt more aware of the risks of treating certain patients: at times he was prone to over-management or to turning down referrals because the patient sounded too troubled. He resented feeling hypervigilant, and the thought of a lawsuit was frequently on his mind. He wondered how he could handle having another patient commit suicide, yet he realized the risk of having a patient commit suicide was about the same as it had been before David’s death-about 50%.



This vignette illustrates an expected course of turmoil following the suicide of a patient and is an example of the many responses a clinician might have. Many clinicians have a more severe reaction. As an occupational hazard, preparing for the possibility of patient suicide will help the clinician anticipate the types of support that our colleagues or we may need to weather the event. Improved training about the effects may help clinicians and organizations respond effectively when a patient commits suicide.


Dr Tillman is Evelyn Stefansson Nef Director of the Erikson Institute at the Austen Riggs Center in Stockbridge, Mass. She reports no conflicts of interest concerning the subject matter of this article.


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