Adolescents reject their parents’ icons and seek out and empower their own. Antiheroes seem deliberately provocative, assailing almost every social convention of the adult generation, and parents often fear they are leading youth astray.
Adolescents of every generation reject their parents' icons as they seek out and empower their own. These icons fall along a continuum, from mainstream hero figures--usually tolerable to parents and the adult generation, such as Kelly Clarkson, Beyoncé, and Usher--to the antiheroes at the other end, such as Marilyn Manson, Courtney Love, Eminem, Dennis Rodman, and perhaps even fictional video game characters such as Hitman and the protagonist CJ in Grand Theft Auto. These antiheroes seem deliberately provocative, assailing almost every social convention of the adult generation, and parents often fear they are leading youth astray.1 Indeed, identification with some youth subcultures (eg, goth) may be associated with increased risk of self-harm.2
Yet every generation repeats this pattern, elevating their own rebel leaders while dismissing their parents' icons. All along the spectrum, icons resonate with important themes inherent to adolescent development and provide clinical opportunities to engage both adolescents struggling with individuation and parents seeking skills to facilitate this process despite feeling stymied by their adolescents.
Whether Eminem in the 2000s, Marilyn Manson in the 1990s, Alice Cooper in the 1970s, or Elvis Presley or James Dean in the 1950s, antiheroes possess similar characteristics (Table 1), and these characteristics amplify important developmental challenges faced by the adolescent. Moreover, these antiheroes challenge the adolescent's parents, who are contending with their own developmental hurdles imposed by the adolescent's separation/individuation process.
Separation and identification
The appeal of antiheroes coincides with 2 intertwined developmental tasks that are important in adolescence. First, adolescents must separate enough from parents to identify their own interests and to construct an identity. Second, adolescents must be able to connect to other peers as they separate from parents. This is not a linear process, and the adolescent intermittently rejects and then approaches parents for support during times when the adolescent experiences a failure or is ostracized by his or her peer group. The adolescent may be harsh and critical of his parents at one moment, fearing dependency and making an effort to separate, yet expect parents to be compassionate the next moment, when the adolescent feels shunned or neglected by even a subgroup of peers.
The phenomenon of adolescent antihero admiration can thus be viewed as a developmentally important part of an adolescent's psychological growth toward individuation. Inclusion of temporary identifications, even with outrageous figures, by adolescents is part of their process of deriving a cohesive sense of self.3 Adolescents who struggle with feelings of alienation may be more prone to try on an antihero identity among their explorations. Even this phase may ultimately strengthen their final identity, since adolescents may distill antihero traits to manage their own fears of being outcast as they strive for autonomy.
Both heroes and antiheroes may provide an identity way station, facilitating separation from parents and offering the adolescent identifiable means (clothes, music, specific interests) to be recognized by like-minded others, which helps adolescents identify potential peer connections. In the effort to connect with similar peers, and to distance from dissimilar peers, adolescents exaggerate differences among peer groups, including their musical preferences.4 However, the personas tried on by the adolescent often wear poorly and may be abandoned relatively quickly, particularly if they do not lead to useful connections to peers.
The appeal of antiheroes
Antiheroes may particularly appeal to adolescents who, sensitive to their own flaws, see the antihero as similarly flawed and shunned by adults. These adolescents also hope to find the ability to flourish without depending on adults. Few have suggested that the appeal of Alice Cooper, Courtney Love, or Marilyn Manson was primarily based on their vocal abilities. What antiheroes do possess, beyond outrageous behavior, are uniqueness, creativity, and cour-age, which predominate over traits such as perfect pitch or physical strength. In addition, they may help adolescents view their own flaws as acceptable or even heroic badges of honor.
Adolescents often imitate the antihero, even in appearance, as they try to fashion themselves into a figure similarly powerful to stand against authority figures, despite lacking attributes or talents recognized by mainstream culture. Looking the part may be the most effective means by which adolescents can demonstrate their need to play out the fantasy of emerging victorious. Antihero identities adopted by adolescents are almost invariably temporary holding identities, as the adolescent figures out that portraying the stage persona of the antihero does not work in real life as fantasized.
J, a 15-year-old boy with depressive disorder and a propensity for fighting in school, excitedly directed his therapist to a Web site featuring a famous and somewhat disreputable sports figure physically attacking a commentator who was ridiculing the player on national television. The patient stressed that many of his friends felt strongly that this video gave credence to the argument that physical assault was a necessary and justifiable response to verbal insults. As the video progresses, the sports figure leaps across the interview table and attacks the broadcaster before he is pulled out of the fight by station attendants.
The patient noted that many of his friends saw this scene as an example of how one can be pushed toward violence as the only response to ongoing insults and therefore justified his own continual pugilism in school and in the neighborhood. The therapist identified with the patient, noting that it felt good to see the broadcaster deftly "handled" by the professional ballplayer. However, both the therapist and patient also wondered whether the player and the broadcaster were following a kind of unwritten script that, in the end, made the player seem potentially even more foolish than expected. After all, it was obvious, barring some unknown martial arts expertise on the part of the broadcaster, that the athlete could easily overcome this adversary and that his response was therefore particularly uncreative and predictable. A quick Google search revealed that the incident had left the athlete in a state of media infamy, and the patient wondered whether it would have been even more effective for the player to simply have walked off the set, leaving the puerile broadcaster alone with his mockery.
While adolescents are seeking autonomy, parents may become fearful that their offspring may be irreparably harmed by exposure to antiheroes.5,6 Indeed, violent imagery in the media may negatively influence the development of adolescent attitudes such as empathy.7 The expansion of mass media and the decrease in censorship provide adolescents more exposure to more extreme images,8 desensitizing them to previously unspeakable behaviors.9-12
Antiheroes have been implicated in promoting negative, self-destructive adolescent behaviors and, at the extreme, adolescent tragedies such as teen suicides.13-15 While a small fraction of severely psychiatrically ill adolescents imitate the potentially violent antics of antihero personas, the vast majority of adolescents can distinguish these staged acts from real lifestyles.
Antihero imitation may become an acceptable part of adolescent culture for healthy adolescents, but when is it a sign of maladaptive behavior? Signs of potentially worrisome adolescent antihero worship occur when it results in alienation, isolation, or humiliation rather than serving as a form of connection. Furthermore, when imitation is coupled with expressions of any self-injurious behavior or violence toward self or others, this signals the need for intervention.
T, a 14-year-old girl, described in outpatient therapy how she felt alienated by peers after dying her hair black, wearing black nail polish, and changing her cell phone ringtone to a rap song. She complained that peers she had known since elementary school stopped talking to her. In therapy, T began showing her therapist her MySpace profile as well as those of boyfriends, including one whose profile included pictures of marijuana leaves. T's profile included photos of multiple friends, some in sexually provocative positions.
The therapist examined not only T's profile but others' profiles on MySpace, as well, as T and the therapist imagined what the "real person" was like who put up various profiles. They soon recognized that T's sexually provocative material made some boys expect that she would "put out," which put her in uncomfortable situations, including other girls talking badly about her. T recognized that she wished others would think she was "hot" so that she might become more popular among peers, and she could not think of other ways to attract their attention or respect. Although she had relatively little insight into the reasons behind her music choices, she thought others would think she was "mature" and "hip-hop," which would elevate her over other girls. T's fears of being neglected, as well as her choice of ways to attract attention, became a focus of therapy. While she dyed her hair multiple other colors to imitate the female singer Pink during the course of treatment, connections between feeling "not special" and then taking such actions led T to recognize her overwhelming impulses to do anything to avoid loneliness. As T examined the consequences of such acts, she realized that she often did not obtain what she wanted. She began articulating her feelings to others during the times when she felt lonely and needy of attention.
Clinical opportunities with adolescents and their parents
As shown in these case illustrations, antiheroes may be useful clinically as a vehicle for addressing adolescent struggles with separation and identity development. Specifically, antiheroes may provide an additional window to the soul of the adolescent. Based on the adolescent's passion for what the antihero represents, discussions of antiheroes may serve as a projection device for clinicians and parents. Antiheroes may also facilitate discussion of complex issues, since the adolescent describes reactions to the antihero that in reality reflect the adolescent's own worries and concerns.
While the adolescent may experience anxiety caused by separation/individuation fears, parents may also feel anxious in that they fear losing control over their child, fear criticism from other parents, and perhaps most important, fear their child will abandon their values and instead emulate the antihero du jour. The adult's familiar psychological defense system may be challenged in these circumstances. Parental regression to authoritarianism or denial manifesting as avoidance or neglect may emerge, causing the parents to overlook the underlying needs of the separating adolescent. Even small tensions may become too much to bear when both the adolescent and parent cannot harness their own anxieties, and then both may rely on more primitive defenses that undermine efforts toward constructive negotiation. While disconnection and avoidance of anxiety-provoking interactions occur, perhaps facilitating adolescent separation, this scenario does not allow parents to model or provide the adolescent with useful responses to employ as coping skills.
The clinical opportunity available amid these parent-adolescent conflicts is to examine optimal coping skills to navigate this complicated separation/individuation process with parents and adolescents. The adolescent's interests in icons, even antiheroes, provide important channels of communication and cues. If these are recognized in a developmental context, adults can attune and assist the adolescent in separating while minimizing their own distress. Clinical opportunities for both adolescents and parents are outlined in Table 2.
Negative impacts of the antihero on the adolescent, based on observed behavior or suspicion of impending harm to the adolescent or others, warrant attention by the clinician. The function served by the antihero can inform the clinician as to which interventions are most likely to benefit the patient and family members. Functional assessments usually involve the identification of the settings or context in which the adolescent's troublesome behaviors occur.16 In addition, functional assessments examine the antecedents leading to the inappropriate behavior and the consequences of these behaviors.
For example, an adolescent may frighten parents and teachers by dressing like a particular icon. This behavior may occur only at school, or everywhere, and may have emerged after the adolescent was not accepted for a sports team or school musical group, or simply following rejection by peers. The consequences of this behavior may include formation of bonds with similar peers, expanding a group of accepting peers, and the added pressures of increased conflicts with parents that the new peers may bring.
For some adolescents, role-modeling an antihero may serve as a behavior that emerges in response to disappointed or disapproving adults and peers. Moreover, the antihero remains available to the adolescent through the media for ongoing direction about what to wear and how to act. Yet the adolescent can never fully identify with the antihero, so this costume can ultimately be discarded; that is, since the adolescent did not create this persona, it resides with the antihero when the adolescent is ready to abandon it. What is harder for the adolescent to abandon is the circle of peers who may similarly be identified by their interest in an antihero.
Ultimately, antiheroes and what they represent suffer the fate of other antithetical ideas in society: they become somehow assimilated into the current adolescent culture. To continue as antiheroes, these characters have to rebel against their socially acknowledged role. This does not mean antiheroes necessarily sell out, but instead that antiheroes provoke a response from mainstream society, which most often adjusts to them. To this end, it is helpful to remind parents that the values of antiheroes are reflections of the prevailing culture as much as they are reactions to the values of the prevailing culture. Every era has its heroes and villains, and most past villains are eventually understood in the context of more mainstream ideals.
Adolescents often need help in negotiating the sometimes turbulent trail toward adulthood. Adults can be an invaluable support to adolescents by preparing (beyond protecting) them to contend with the media barrage to which they are currently exposed. Adults can promote understanding of adolescent developmental issues through thoughtful examination of adolescent choices in music, media, and pop culture icons--including antiheroes. Adults who deal with adolescents may set goals to model tolerance of adolescents' individual choices while setting guidelines for behavior that demonstrate the basic values that are important to adults and to successful societal integration. Media pop culture icons and antiheroes present clinicians and adults with the opportunity to work through critical developmental challenges with adolescents by using sometimes distressing images to address struggles leading to individuation and autonomy.
Dr Bostic is director of school psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston and McLean Hospital, Belmont, Mass. Dr Pataki is director of residency training in child psychiatry at the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine, Los Angeles. Dr Rho is a child psychiatry fellow at Cambridge Hospital, Mass. Dr Schlozman is associate director of residency training in child psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital and McLean Hospital. Dr Martin is director of the child psychiatry inpatient service at Yale-New Haven Hospital, Conn.Dr Bostic has received grant support and/or honoraria from Abbott, Forest, GlaxoSmithKline, Eli Lilly, and Pfizer. Dr Pataki has received research support from Eli Lilly, Pfizer, Novartis, and Shire. Drs Rho, Schlozman, and Martin have no financial relationships to disclose.
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